I don’t like the word ‘networking’, I prefer ‘making friends.’
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My friend Jen Gubicza, is an artist, writer and runs an amazing Faux Taxidermy business called Zooguu , where she makes every single art piece by hand. And she’s one of the most connected people I know who hates networking.
Instead she makes friends.
She shows up with full presence and bubbling energy and gets really interested in other people. You can witness this for yourself if you ever join an
live.Jen and I became friends by celebrating each other’s tastes and work. Oh and I should say that Jen lives on the other side of the world from me. So this friendship was built over time, quite unintentionally.
A like or comment on instagram or facebook, a positive mention to a third party, and constructive feedback in a critique group became the common ground for this friendship.
Not business cards or elevator pitches. And yet my ‘network’ is greatly expanded through this friendships.
So what am I saying?
Go be friends with
More importantly, be a friend like
, it’s more fun than networking.
TEN MINUTE ARTIST PROMPT
Celebrate each other’s success
Tell someone what you like about their work, share your work so someone can do the same for you. Make a drawing of you and your creative friends.
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What are your networking secrets?
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Love this post, Adam! I agree wholeheartedly. It's so much more fun to make friends than to "network." Thank you to Jen for putting it so beautifully and you for sharing it with us.
This! The writers I met in my 2020 debut group (all online at first) are still getting me through this turbulent journey that is publishing.